Bridging Faith: A Call for Unity Between Catholics and Protestants
I’ve got a strong affiliation with evangelicals—I carry my Bible everywhere and I’m married to a Baptist pastor. Yet, I also hold onto the principle of Sola Scriptura.
Still, since stepping into the Culture Wars about ten years ago, I’ve found unexpected camaraderie with Catholics.
Our differences are significant, and we need to talk about them. But harming each other is not the answer.
It was Catholic thinkers who first introduced me to natural law, the foundation for my work with nonprofits. Over time, I’ve teamed up with Catholic friends in crucial cultural struggles: tackling the transgender movement, overturning Roe v. Wade, and defending parental rights. These victories simply wouldn’t have happened if we had stood alone.
However, lately, I’ve noticed this sense of solidarity waning. If we don’t understand what’s happening, we risk losing our capacity to fight future battles.
Common Ground in Different Churches
Let’s be clear: our theological differences are real. I’ve asked my Catholic friends to say they’re praying for “one true church,” and in return, I’ve affectionately mentioned my own prayers to St. Joseph, feeling that the veil hasn’t been completely lifted.
I’m quite uneasy with the attention that Mary receives—often described as “veneration, not worship,” a distinction I’ve heard countless times. But I do recognize that many Protestants overlook Mary’s remarkable obedience and submission to God. A fun memory—some years ago, I wanted my work to reflect that attitude.
My Catholic friends sometimes think I lack knowledge of church history, and, honestly, they have a point. I was taken aback to hear one share her favorite poems, claiming they originated from David’s book.
It’s worth having discussions and debates. However, the differences we have shouldn’t lead to open conflict, and maintaining this peace has brought about tangible benefits.
A Shift in the Atmosphere
Yet, something feels different now. Recently, I’ve witnessed evangelicals and Catholics turning against each other in shocking ways.
Maybe it’s because conservatives are regaining some cultural influence, particularly online, and old tensions are bubbling up. Or perhaps it’s just that conflict drives clicks and subscriptions for those making money off outrage. Whatever the reason, the discussions have turned brutal—personal, even nasty.
Instead of refining each other through thoughtful dialogue, the narratives have shifted to name-calling—stupid, hypocritical, you name it. We’re seeing slander and misrepresentation becoming all too common.
Meanwhile, figures like Father James Martin in Catholic circles and Matthew Vines among Protestants are pushing narratives that threaten the integrity of both traditions. I’ve entrusted my children to learn about philosophy, relationships, and issues like IVF and gender identity from dedicated Catholic educators, not from progressive Protestants who question biblical truths.
Continuing down this path of division will only erode the fragile unity we share. And it will definitely hinder us when facing challenges ahead.
The Need for Collaboration
In my nonprofit, we lead efforts challenging same-sex marriage, a task as significant as overturning Roe v. Wade. Legally and culturally, restoring marriage as an institution requires all hands on deck.
Catholics can’t do it alone. Protestants can’t do it alone. With the real enemy advancing, we mustn’t let infighting undermine our strength.
Yes, our differences matter. Yes, discussions are essential. But we must avoid mutual destruction in the process. The stakes are too high for families and the next generation.
Faithful Catholics and Protestants may not worship together under the same roof, but the future of our children requires us to fight together under the same banner. Let’s engage in respectful argument but stand united where it counts. Together, we can reclaim a foundational institution that safeguards all children: marriage.
