Reflections on Charlie Kirk

I have a quick story about my friend Charlie Kirk. It was a moment that, maybe, changed things a bit for both of us. When I asked him some questions—questions I struggled with at the time—he was already making a name for himself. I remember he looked a bit lost and asked, “What should I do?”

I told him, “You need to suffer.” It sounds harsh, perhaps, but I genuinely think that suffering can be a pathway to growth. Learning often happens in those quiet, solitary moments, like late at night or during the early morning hours. I suggested starting with the Bible, then moving on to the classics—like studying the founding principles of America. There, history shows a kind of ladder reaching up to God, with all the good around us, too. Recognizing the existence of good is crucial; that’s, in some way, a reflection of God. Aristotle touches on it, as do figures like Madison and Jefferson.

Curious, he asked, “How can I learn that?” I reiterated, “You need to suffer. You must study and think.” I thought maybe that was the last I’d hear from him.

Looking back, I keep a mental list of six or eight young people who’ve inspired me, and Charlie stands out—he’s the only one who didn’t attend Hillsdale University full-time.

Not long after, he texted me a picture of his completion certificate for an online course from Hillsdale. That was just the start; he’s done that 31 times now.

There’s a deep sense of loss for us. He’s irreplaceable.

Years ago, I had told Charlie that “the good thing about life is…” and I contrasted that with the life of an assassin. Assassins, in losing their humanity, destroy everything they touch. Charlie, on the other hand, is vibrant with life.

My wife and I have set up a scholarship with hopes that Charlie’s children can attend a good university. We’re committed to that vision. Come May 9th of this year, Hillsdale University will honor Charlie and Erica with an honorary degree to show our utmost respect.

Charlie has dealt with suffering gracefully. He has gone to the Lord, and I believe he truly deserves his reward.