A family in New Jersey is urgently looking for a living donor for their eighth-grade son, Thaddeus Giansanti, who has been battling kidney disease since birth. Over the past 13 years, he has had several surgeries, including the removal of one kidney when he was just an infant.
Despite these challenges, his parents say Thaddeus remains optimistic and positive. Currently, his remaining kidney is failing, prompting an appeal to the community. “We’re not adversaries; we’re asking for help,” stated his father, Carlo Giansanti.
The family discovered Thaddeus’ kidney condition through an ultrasound before his birth, which initially showed no major concerns. However, a routine check up revealed an elevated creatinine level, leading to further medical consultations. “There was a problem with the formation of the ureters and kidneys,” his mother, Krista DeMark, explained.
Thaddeus spent considerable time in the NICU and underwent a nephrectomy when he was under five months old. His remaining kidney is now categorized as chronically ill, necessitating lifelong treatment.
Last year, DeMark noted changes in Thaddeus’ condition, with doctors now emphasizing the urgency of finding a living donor. “His blood work has accelerated the process,” she remarked. If a transplant doesn’t occur soon, Thaddeus may need to start dialysis.
Thaddeus, described as bright and outgoing, excels academically and has earned several scholarships as he prepares for high school. He also enjoys athletic activities like soccer and golf, plays the piano, and participates in community service.
The family previously kept details about Thaddeus’ health low-key, wanting him to maintain a positive outlook. Yet, given the recent urgency, they’ve felt compelled to share their story. “We were surprised by how many people showed support; it’s really humbling,” DeMark said.
“We’re leaning on our faith as we take things day by day,” she added, remaining hopeful for a solution. “The miracle Thad needs right now is people who can step up.”
Those interested in donating must be 45 years or younger, have a BMI under 30, and match Thaddeus’ blood type O. Surgery is minimally invasive, with costs covered by donor insurance. If you want to be considered, a living donor questionnaire is available for completion.
