Rupert Everett Reflects on His “Slightly Sociopathic” Past

Rupert Everett has opened up about his rebellious younger years, describing his behavior as “slightly sociopathic.” In a recent interview, the 67-year-old actor candidly characterized himself as “unwise, pushy, dishonest, and deadly.”

“Honestly, I was self-absorbed, only interested in my own pleasure. That kind of attitude can be pretty deadly. I think I was a bit sociopathic,” he reflected. He admitted to being a terrible gossip, often sharing what others confided in him, and mentioned borrowing friends’ clothes without returning them. “I really don’t know how I justified my actions back then. It was a pretty deadly time for me,” he said.

Everett also expressed deep concerns about his vanity, viewing it more as a sign of insecurity rather than self-admiration. “It’s a strange feeling, really,” he remarked.

While he once thought he’d be clubbing into his 70s, he now finds joy in simpler things. “I’ve developed a fascination with, well, dust particles. Just observing the beauty of spring brings me immense happiness,” he shared.

He admitted to not just being “deadly” to those around him but also neglectful of his own health, saying, “I ruined myself.” Looking back at his younger self, he recalled a time when he was quite fit. “Once upon a time, I looked great with muscles, but getting to that point took a lot of hard work,” he noted.

As he ages, Everett feels the effects of his past choices. “I think I’m almost crippled now,” he confessed. He also acknowledged his lack of commitment to proper self-care, saying, “I never stretched or did what it takes to maintain fitness. It’s boring, I’ll admit. As a result, I fear I’ll face some musculoskeletal issues in the future.”

Though he admits to still being somewhat selfish, he notes that he’s more considerate now, especially since he has been living with his husband, Enrique, for 16 years. “Once you start sharing a life, you have to be mindful of each other’s space. Otherwise, things can fall apart pretty quickly,” he explained.

Everett first gained recognition in the 1981 play “Another Country,” later reprising his role in the film adaptation in 1984. He achieved international fame with “My Best Friend’s Wedding,” which earned him nominations for both a Golden Globe and a BAFTA. He was also nominated again for a Golden Globe in “The Perfect Husband.” His reflections offer a glimpse into the complexities of his life journey, filled with ups and downs, yet a deeper understanding of self.