Dear Abbey: My brother died of cancer a year ago. During his 50 years of marriage, I felt sick of how his wife handled him.
She snapped to him and chewed his head when he first married until his death. I had never heard he spoke strictly in return.
I kept my mouth closed because I didn't want to make the situation worse for him. He was easy, warm and fun to be loved by many people through his life.
I really want to talk to my sister -in -law about my work because he's gone. I think it helps to heal what I need to say in the end, but I couldn't do it.
I don't care that it might end my relationship with her. Currently, there are two children, one of which I am very close. Your thoughts? -The conflict in Iowa
Dear conflict: If you are thinking, it will end your relationship with at least one of your siblings.
Talk to an adult child near you before approaching your brother's widow. See that your brothers are verbally abused by his wife and explain what you felt on your death floor.
You don't want to lose the close relationship you are enjoying with him, but now you are going to broadcast those emotions to your mother for your own healing due to the loss of your brother. is.
You can't have a relationship with a woman, so you can speak your heart.
Dear Abbey: I am a homosexual who has been related to married men for the past three years.
They have been separated for one year, but no one has applied for divorce. I know he wants the future with me, but I don't know if he has enough courage to take the next step.
His wife is still “praying for gay and praying,” and believes that marriage will still work. She sends a Bible poem to him and regularly worships the song.
He was always gay, but he felt that he had to live a fake life because he was raised and his religious development was performed. His family does not accept, but my family is so, and they met him.
How long do you wait for my question? I don't want to wait for someone else to determine my future. -Pencilvania Cindefella
Dear Cindefella: You have stated that your lover is separated from his wife. A year later, he would think he became more comfortable with his sexual orientation.
It's time to tell him that he must go ahead, unless he asks for counseling from a licensed therapist who can help him to understand who he is and who he wants to be.
Living in a lymbo like you is unhealthy for you, he. If you have a next relationship, we hope that your next relationship will be with the Attach and available to use.
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