Sam’s Imogen
What did you want?
He had never met him before and wanted to see him again.
First impression?
Mullets definitely leave a mark, but really, it’s about the big smile and enthusiasm.
What did you talk about?
A mix of significant topics (his move from Australia and my job changes) and lighter stuff (like World Book Day costumes and picking melons).
The most troublesome moment?
He likened our meeting to a blind date and brought me a gift, which left me feeling a bit guilty for not having one for him.
Good table manners?
Yes, even while peeling shrimp.
What’s Sam’s best?
He’s an excellent conversationalist and has a good sense of humor, which is essential when interacting with a 9-year-old.
Would you like to introduce Sam to a friend?
Absolutely.
Explain him in three words
Thoughtful, cheerful, spontaneous.
What do you think he made for you?
I was a bit flustered after having trouble finding the restaurant, but we settled down quickly and had a great time.
Have you gone somewhere?
Not really, though we did step out of the restaurant after enjoying our second glass of wine.
And… did you kiss me?
No, just a friendly goodbye hug outside the station.
If we could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
Maybe a closer match in terms of location (he lives in Maidenhead, I’m in East London).
Mark out of 10?
8. It was a fun evening filled with tapas.
Will we meet again?
Sam was wonderful, but we’re in different places—both literally and figuratively.
Imogen’s Sam
What did you want?
A pleasant evening with good food and even better company—plus some potential for finding a life partner.
First impression?
Her nice eyes and confidence gave off a creative vibe.
What did you talk about?
Books, pets, travels, family, and festivals.
The most troublesome moment?
I accidentally made a bit of a mess with my martini—forgot to sip it like a gentleman.
Good table manners?
Absolutely. It was a shared tapas experience without any arguments over the Patatas Bravas.
What’s the best about Imogen?
She was genuinely interested in my life, and our conversation felt easy.
Would you like to introduce Imogen to your friends?
I would, without hesitation.
Explain Imogen in three words.
Cheerful, beautiful, intelligent.
What do you think she made for you?
I believe she came across as kind and intriguing.
Have you gone somewhere?
We did leave the restaurant, but we took separate paths at the station.
And… did you kiss me?
Just a simple kiss on the cheek.
If we could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
I wish we could have enjoyed the tapas outside together.
Mark out of 10?
8.
Will we meet again?
We’ll probably see each other as friends at concerts and festivals, but romantically, I think we both felt it was just not there.
Imogen and Sam dined at Barafina in London. Want to try a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com
