I haven’t served in the military myself. My father, a veteran of the Vietnam War, often reminded me that I “never missed a meal or heard a shot fired in anger.”
So, writing about Veterans Day feels a bit odd at first. But maybe that’s why it’s important for civilians like me to contribute to the conversation.
After all, Veterans Day holds significance not just for those who wore the uniform but also for those of us who enjoy the freedoms they helped secure. We owe more than just quiet appreciation.
There’s often confusion between Veterans Day and Memorial Day. Memorial Day is focused on remembering those who gave their lives in battle—a somber occasion to reflect on their sacrifices.
In contrast, Veterans Day is a celebration. It’s about expressing gratitude to all who served, a chance to connect with living veterans and understand the weight of their commitment. This day emphasizes the stories of veterans, inviting the nation to engage and appreciate.
The holiday has roots in Armistice Day, commemorating the end of World War I in 1918. This devastating conflict saw over 40 million military and civilian deaths, with daily losses averaging 6,000 soldiers.
While the U.S. participated in the war for a little over a year, it faced significant casualties, including many lost to the influenza pandemic. My grandfather, George S. Patton Jr., served as a colonel and tank commander, and was wounded in France that same year. Interestingly, he was born on November 11th.
The meaning of the day expanded in 1978 when President Gerald Ford officially renamed it Veterans Day. According to the Department of Veterans Affairs, this day acknowledges the service and sacrifice of all who have served, celebrating their patriotism and dedication to the common good.
Growing up, my parents focused on the notion of sacrifice associated with service, rather than the specifics of military life. We should honor all veterans, not just those who faced direct combat but everyone who has taken the oath and donned the uniform.
My grandfather recognized that service takes many forms. In his famous speeches, he highlighted the importance of every role: “The ordnance men are needed to supply the guns; the quartermasters are necessary to carry the food and clothing; even the last men in the mess hall, boiling water to keep us safe.”
We often claim that we can never fully repay our veterans for their sacrifices. While that’s true, it doesn’t excuse inaction. Veterans Day should remind us that showing gratitude isn’t optional; it’s a civic duty.
The flyovers, parades, speeches, and handshakes today matter, just like the ongoing support for veterans’ physical and mental health, their transition to civilian life, and their families. Most importantly, we need to listen to their experiences. It’s essential to truly listen.
These few days of honoring veterans serve as a call for us to do our part.
This Veterans Day, remember that it’s not enough to simply say “Thank you for your service.” Look a veteran in the eye. Ask about their experiences. Show genuine interest. They’ll notice, and I promise that the gratitude you seek will resonate within you as well.
