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Autism is neither a gift nor a hopeless situation: A tale of hard love

Autism is neither a gift nor a hopeless situation: A tale of hard love

Exploring the Impact of Autism on a Journalist’s Journey

In today’s society, having a diagnosis can sometimes feel like a mark of pride. However, some people, like journalist Leland Wittert from NewsNation, have a different perspective.

Wittert, diagnosed with autism, believes his challenges have played a significant role in shaping his success as a journalist. He pointed out in a discussion with Blaze TV host Allie Beth Stuckey that rather than holding him back, his struggles have driven him forward.

For much of his early life, he struggled with communication, even remaining nonverbal past the age of three. He recalls facing numerous difficulties in school, as he often felt overwhelmed.

Describing himself as “pretty aggressive,” Wittert explained that he had significant sensory issues, which sometimes led to physical reactions when he felt provoked. “If a kid touches me or looks at me the wrong way, I turn around and hit them,” he admitted.

Reflecting on his childhood, he shared that his father’s approach was crucial. His dad focused on preparing him to face life’s challenges: “My father’s idea was to hold my hand through adversity… I had to learn how to adapt and engage with the world on its terms,” he said.

Wittert acknowledged that this adaptation was not easy. Learning how to interact with people—understanding social cues and emotional dynamics—took time and effort. “I didn’t know how to read the atmosphere in a room or when to stop talking,” he remarked, suggesting that constant praise might have hindered his learning: “You’ll never learn that if you’re wrapped in bubble wrap.”

At a young age, Wittert’s father emphasized the importance of self-respect and earned esteem. “When I was 5 or 6, I was doing 200 push-ups a night. Self-esteem is earned, not given,” he emphasized, discussing a mindset that contrasts sharply with some modern parenting attitudes.

As Wittert’s self-esteem developed, his father also prioritized teaching him the social workings of the world. Countless hours spent together forged a deep bond: “He’s still my best friend… I’ve talked to my dad like three times already today,” he said.

Lunch outings became an important part of their relationship. Wittert recalled how he would pepper his father with questions at the table. “As soon as his friends were seated, I’d start bombarding him with stories,” he explained, highlighting the informal lessons his dad provided. When Wittert didn’t understand why certain comments may not resonate, his father would gently correct his approach.

Ultimately, it was a series of ongoing, small lessons— “minute-by-minute” reflections on emotional intelligence and human dynamics—that equipped Wittert for the complexities of life.

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