Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman: A Contentedly Separated Couple
Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman might just be the happiest separated couple around.
The two, who initially separated in 2017, have no intentions of getting a divorce. They’re in touch daily with their children and grandchildren, and they share meals together every week.
DeVito, known for his role in “It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia,” recently shared with AARP, “We always gather at her house. We enjoy watching our grandchildren together. That’s something special about our relationship. It feels good.”
Having met back in 1971 in New York, DeVito, 81, and Perlman, 78, quickly moved in together. They tied the knot in 1982 and have three children: Lucy, Grace, and Jacob. They’ve also collaborated in films, featuring as the parents in DeVito’s 1996 movie “Matilda” and in the sitcom “Taxi.”
After more than four decades together, they separated in 2012 but reconciled the following year. Their second split happened in March 2017.
Despite their separation, they maintain a close bond. In 2019, they were seen dining together in Chelsea, looking quite cozy and even flossing their teeth at the table, which was a bit amusing.
Perlman later reflected on their split during an appearance on “Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen,” noting, “Danny and I have always cared for one another. We have three wonderful children, and we find common ground on most things. After 40 years together, it’s a significant amount of time.” She laughingly added, “Maybe we should try something different! It’s all good!”
She mentioned that their relationship has improved since there’s less tension now. “Things feel a lot different. The stress is gone,” she noted.
Perlman pointed out, “It’s not intrusive. I’m not in his space, and he’s not in mine. The transition has had its challenges because of the kids, but everyone maintains a good relationship, including Danny and me. That’s what really matters.” She reaffirmed her lack of interest in pursuing divorce. “We live apart but see each other frequently; there’s no need for drastic changes.”
