New York City Singleton Sparks Debate with “Minimum Rules” for Dating

A woman in New York City is stirring up significant conversation among singles in the area. She shared a list outlining “minimum rules” that she believes men should follow on first dates, prompting some to label her as “high maintenance.”

This woman, in her 20s, expressed to the Post that being single in the city feels like “a complete cesspool.” She commented that many men fall into categories such as being gay, too good to be true, or just not available.

Frustrated with the dating scene, she posted her list on social media where it quickly gained traction, racking up over a million views and igniting debate.

Her first rule? “Pay the bill – if you suggest splitting, I won’t talk to you again.” She emphasized that she doesn’t believe in splitting expenses equally.

Her other rules included:

• Open all doors – she won’t touch them.
• Let her order first.
• Give her the option to sit in a booth.
• Offer to walk her to her car or Uber – “prove you’re not a jerk.”
• Don’t mention ex-partners or past relationships. And finally,
• Sidewalk rules – if you’re unsure why you’re single, she’s willing to explain.

Many users on social media supported her rules, finding them straightforward yet essential. One user commented on the simplicity and complexity of her guidelines, while another stressed that anyone failing to meet them is not ready for dating.

However, the list also drew considerable criticism. Some users pointed out what they perceived as contradictions, arguing that the “minimum” expected from men seems to conflict with women’s maximum rights in relationships. Others found her tone outdated, especially regarding the second rule.

The woman, known for sharing bold lists on social media, hosts events titled “Make America Hot Again,” aiming to connect with like-minded singles, particularly urban conservatives. She identifies as a political moderate and expressed her view on societal expectations: “There’s a faction of conservatives that expects marriage by 22 and traditional roles. That’s just not me.”

Her next event, “The Death of Dating Apps,” is scheduled for this month in New York City.

“It’s a bit of a jumble,” she noted about the crowd at her events. “It’s really about finding cool, normal conservatives. We like to drink and have fun.”