Bethenny Frankel Opens Up About Painful Divorce

Bethenny Frankel shared an emotional moment during a recent interview, discussing her lengthy divorce from her second husband, Jason Hoppy.

The former star of ‘Real Housewives of New York City’ spoke candidly on Alex Cooper’s podcast, “Call Her Daddy,” revealing that her difficult childhood experiences paled in comparison to the “suffering” she endured during her divorce.

“I’ve witnessed my mother attempt suicide. I spent my entire youth trying to save her. I’ve been around some really tough stuff—guns, the Mafia, racetracks. I’ve experienced it all. But nothing compares to the decade-long ordeal of my divorce,” the 55-year-old Frankel said.

She reflected on her mother’s struggles with bulimia and alcoholism, calling those experiences “child’s play” compared to the trauma of dealing with a partner who seemed intent on inflicting pain.

Frankel described how, because she was often seen as the more “successful” partner, the public perception painted her as a “powerful tyrant,” while Hoppy, 56, was branded a “victim.”

“It was incredibly traumatic. A ten-year chapter in my life. I lost my hair and often felt like I wouldn’t survive. I thought I would never feel happiness again, but I had to push through for my daughter,” she admitted, her voice breaking.

Frankel and Hoppy married in March 2010, with their daughter Bryn born two months later. The couple announced their separation in December 2012, and Frankel filed for divorce shortly after. The legal separation was finalized in January 2021.

During this time, Frankel described the divorce process as akin to a marathon. “It was exhausting—fraud, theft, harassment, and emotional abuse were just a few hurdles. The ordeal left lawyers shaking their heads in disbelief,” she shared.

In January 2017, Hoppy faced legal issues due to alleged harassment towards Frankel, including threats concerning their daughter Bryn. Hoppy denied the allegations.

Despite the challenges, Frankel emphasized the importance of maintaining a respectful attitude toward Hoppy in front of their daughter. “Even if you don’t speak negatively about the other parent, children pick up on the energy. They will understand without you having to spell it out,” she urged.

Frankel advised that having a prenuptial agreement and trusting one’s instincts before getting married could help avoid painful situations later. “Cracks become craters,” she cautioned.

Finally, she highlighted the need for love and encouragement in their home environment, suggesting that therapy should be a part of family support.

Hoppy has not publicly responded to these comments.