Jana Kramer reflects on her career choices with some regret, but emphasizes that as the primary provider for her children, she did what was necessary to support them.
“There are definitely moments where I think, ‘Oh, I hope I’m not doing that ad again,'” she shared, indicating that she’s learned from past experiences. She was discussing her initial song collaboration, “Do It In Heels.”
When Decker inquired if she was referring to the “Vibrator” commercial, they both laughed, and Decker reassured her, saying, “It’s okay, that’s what it is.”
Kramer stated, “I’m not going to repeat that mistake, you know?”
She also mentioned that she has to send child support payments to her ex-husband, Mike Caussin, and that she has primary custody of their two children, Jolie, 9, and Jace, 6.
While discussing the finances, Kramer noted, “Sometimes, when that child support check comes in, I think, ‘Well, that’s a good paycheck.'” This led Decker to reassure her, saying, “There’s nothing wrong with that. You’re doing great.”
Kramer and Decker recently released their new single “Do It In Heels,” and Kramer revealed that when she started writing it two years ago, she aimed for a fun, upbeat anthem for women. “I was just done with the hurt and wanted to write something joyful,” she explained.
While crafting the song, she knew she wanted another woman’s input. “Jesse was the only person I thought of because we’ve been friends for so long,” Kramer noted.
She added that Decker’s involvement in the song was a definite highlight, admitting she was a bit hesitant, saying, “What if she doesn’t like it?”
Decker quickly responded, “I’m in. Let’s make it happen.” They both felt an instant connection, and Kramer mentioned how, at first, they felt the industry pushed them into a competitive narrative.
“I liked you from the start,” Decker said, recalling their early interactions where both thought the other was more talented and beautiful, which fostered a false sense of rivalry.
The moment they met at a party shifted things; Kramer asked, “Don’t you like me?” to which Decker replied, “No, I like you,” cementing their friendship. “Did we just become best friends?” Decker recalled jokingly.
Kramer appreciates Decker’s perspective, stating that her past marriage, particularly the trauma from her ex-husband’s infidelity, shows her resilience. “I have found a truly respectful and loving partner. It’s been about learning to value myself,” she expressed.
She admitted, “For a while, I held onto a lot for the family’s sake, but now I feel secure in who I am.” Kramer emphasized the importance of ongoing healing and growth.
Regarding “Do It In Heels,” Decker hopes listeners find a sense of empowerment in the song’s message. “Women can be really hard on themselves,” she acknowledged. The song encourages embracing self-acceptance, something both artists resonate with.
