Is Feminism Dominating Discussions on Masculinity?
Recently, Sens. Josh Hawley and Adam Lane Smith engaged in a thought-provoking discussion regarding the role of feminism in shaping conversations about men and masculinity.
Hawley, the author of the book Masculinity: The Masculine Virtues America Needs, shared insights with his sons on what it truly means to be a human being, particularly from a Christian perspective. Smith, who describes himself as an “attachment specialist” and has transitioned from being a licensed marriage therapist to a speaker and author, also weighed in on this complex issue.
The feminist movement has faced criticism in recent years, sometimes being labeled as “woke” and perceived as anti-men. Critics suggest it prioritizes women’s rights over broader discussions of equality.
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“I think modern feminism is based on the misconception that no one can be trusted and that families are secondary,” Smith asserted. He pointed to “red pill” groups as a counterpoint to feminism, suggesting that extreme perspectives from both ends complicate discussions surrounding masculinity. He firmly argues that masculinity should be valued and rejects the notion of “toxic masculinity.”
Hawley echoed this sentiment, dismissing the idea that masculinity is inherently problematic. “I can’t count how often I’ve heard that masculinity is a social construct that needs dismantling. That’s not the case. We don’t need to break it down; we need to strengthen it,” he insisted.
Smith also argued that feminism is tied to Marxist ideologies. “We should revisit discussions from 100 years ago that we overlooked before feminism influenced our systems under the cloak of Marxism. We need genuine dialogues that uphold human dignity—men, women, children, everyone—and discover how to maintain that dignity in a trustworthy, peaceful, and prosperous system,” he said.
Smith lamented that modern feminism depicts the family as an entity that must be dismantled, asserting, “It claims that caring for children is akin to slavery, and it undermines the sacred role of motherhood, which should be a revered goal for many.” He expressed concern that feminism blurs gender lines and denies the unique attributes of men and women.
A notable comment from a Planned Parenthood doctor stated that men can give birth, a notion discussed during a House hearing. This has raised eyebrows and sparked debates about gender identity.
During a recent Senate hearing, Hawley questioned doctors about this idea and noted that “wokeism” has had a detrimental effect on discussions surrounding masculinity. “The essence of it is a denial of what masculinity truly represents,” he remarked.
Hawley believes men should embrace their inherent qualities as designed by God. “We need compassionate, strong individuals who use their strength for protective and nurturing purposes,” he explained. He cautioned against the narrative that men are solely responsible for societal issues, stating that this viewpoint has been damaging to a generation of men striving to be better.
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Hawley sees institutions like churches and synagogues as pivotal places for men to learn about masculinity. He stressed mentorship’s importance, suggesting that it’s crucial for men to reclaim stories from American history and foundational texts, promoting the idea that strong men contribute to society’s success and the well-being of families.
Smith reiterated that masculinity should be about providing security and establishing a sound foundation for future generations. Hawley shared a similar perspective, urging society to recognize the importance of men, stating, “We need you. You matter to our economy, to our nation’s future, to your families, and to your communities.”
