Kamala Harris Reveals Personal Insights in “107 Days”
In her new book, “107 Days,” Kamala Harris opens up about her relationship with Doug Emhoff, the second gentleman, and shares the tumultuous moments that marked the early stages of her presidential campaign.
Following the suspension of Joe Biden’s reelection campaign, the Daily Mail reported that Emhoff’s first marriage ended due to an affair with the family nanny. Emhoff acknowledged this incident after news broke last year. In the book, he reflects on how Harris “sadly” became part of the public scrutiny surrounding their personal lives.
“When the enemy goes after their family, where is the line?” Harris wrote. “I was aware of this when we were dating, and we discussed it during the VP’s review.” She refers to her husband affectionately as “My Dougie.”
Interestingly, Harris mentions that in her 300-page book, Michelle Obama is referenced only three times, revealing a certain admiration and perhaps a sense of camaraderie.
Harris noted that the challenges families face during a presidential run can feel overwhelming. She recounts a moment when she needed a towel while showering, and Emhoff didn’t respond because he was distracted by a baseball game. “He couldn’t hear me—I was kind of frustrated,” she admitted, sharing the personal irritation that unfolded during a hectic campaign season.
The former vice president expressed a desire for special moments with Doug during her birthday but showed understanding of their busy lives. “He was juggling campaign events and just exhausted,” she said.
Harris described a disappointing event venue with outdated decor, contrasting it with the high stakes of their political lives. She and Emhoff had a significant conversation about unity amidst external pressures, emphasizing their need to protect each other from political attacks.
Despite enduring speculation about their marriage following electoral setbacks, Harris notes how Emhoff, with his sweet gestures, reaffirmed his love, often leaving notes for her. She found solace in these small acts, which emphasized their bond.
The day after her birthday, her social secretary humorously insisted that Emhoff must “correct this” after Harris shared an anecdote about his birthday plans. It highlighted the lighthearted nature of their relationship even amid campaign pressures.
Emhoff has children from his previous marriage, and Harris affectionately calls herself “Momara” to them, embracing her role as a stepmother. She shared that her best friend played a key role in introducing her to Doug, revealing she had “kissed many frogs before finding my prince,” showcasing a more personal side to her journey.
In her book, she critically addresses the societal expectations facing male spouses in politics, stating, “In DC, there’s a clear role for wives—less so for husbands.” Harris’s office has not commented on ongoing speculation regarding her marriage, leaving readers to ponder what lies ahead for this political couple.
