Introducing New Advice Columnists

Meet the Post’s latest advice columnists, Gail Rudnick and Kim Murstein. They’re the down-to-earth duo behind a popular podcast, “Grandma, I’m Sorry.” From family conflicts to issues in friendships, finances, marriage, and relationships—no topic feels too sensitive for them to explore. These native New Yorkers provide varied perspectives and share the honest truths about tough love. Trust me, you’ll appreciate their insights.

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Seeking Advice

Reader: I’ve been dating someone for eight months who claims to care about me, but insists they aren’t ready for a commitment. How long should I wait?

Kim: I’m here for you! I totally get it.

Grandma Gail: Don’t have that expectation.

Kim: Honestly, after eight months, you should have clarity about where things stand.

Grandma Gail: If they’re young, maybe eight months isn’t a big deal, but as you grow older, it feels like such a long time. If someone can’t decide in that timeframe, will they ever?

Kim: That doesn’t mean they don’t have feelings for you.

Grandma Gail: Right, but it suggests you want different things.

Kim: Exactly. Do you know what the “talking phase” is, Grandma?

Grandma Gail: I don’t—

Kim: It’s that stage before you become exclusive, filled with texts and conversations…

Grandma Gail: There are just too many games these days. Why would someone commit if they’re getting what they want already? I’ve noticed, when I was younger, I didn’t jump into bed right away, and that’s part of why I got married. If you’re over 25 and can’t commit after four months? Goodbye!

Another Reader’s Dilemma

Reader: He’s a Gemini and I’m a Pisces. Should I skip this date because of our horoscope mismatch?

Kim: I understand your concern!

Grandma Gail: I think you need to simplify things! Don’t consult the stars for every date—focus on the person in front of you.

Kim: I admit I believe in zodiac compatibility. Some of my serious relationships have matched well, while others that didn’t were problematic. But, give it at least one date—someone might surprise you!

Grandma Gail: Well, I’ve been married for 62 years, and we share a zodiac sign. They say Taurus shouldn’t pair up, so that theory’s out the window!

Kim: True! So, let’s go on that date.

Grandma Gail: Yes, let’s!