Dear Abbey: I received a Facebook message from my first cousin. Among them, she apologized for not communicating for the past 10 months. “Please send your address so that you can send a birth announcement.” Abbey, I wasn't even aware that she was pregnant.
I contacted her father. She said she had a child two months ago. This cousin is not a teenager or unmarried. She is married as an expert.
I am confused not only because I was not told, but also because her message did not announce the birth.
Frankly, I'm confused and I'm not interested in giving sudden interest in the situation excluded from what I know.
The purpose of the mailed announcement cannot be assumed to be a gift glove a few months after the child arrives. Your thoughts? -The left in the dark
Dear left: Heaven just knows what happened in your cousin. In this story, there may be much more than you are “excluded”.
You may have had a problem with your pregnancy and your baby. Don't start GR unless you show another thing.
Act properly and send something a little for the baby with a cooperative message. That way, you will lose regret.
Dear Abbey: My youngest son, 27, survived Fentanyl's terrible addiction and was clean and calm for two years. I helped to return him to health. It wasn't easy, but he lives today.
However, this drinking has created a new person and is criticized and compromised on brothers and me.
He found all of us a defect to “hate him,” and so he chose not to be involved with us anymore.
He claims that he is saying “his truth” and claims that he only has “right or wrong”. He has no problem to hurt our emotions.
I come to him from the place of love and acceptance, and I always tell him. He tells me that I am delusional and lying.
I don't know what to do anymore. If we can't come to the “mutual understanding”, he is happy to leave our family.
I am ready to leave him because his Tirades and him are tired of putting everyone. What should I do? -Minesota's disillusioned mother
Dear mother: Is it possible that your son has participated in a kind of cultivated program to get his drinking? His handling of you and his brothers is not acceptable.
If you want to save heartache and end his words, you have the right to keep a distance until he is straight.
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