A recent proposal in New York state aims to allow adoptive parents to increase financial support for birth mothers. However, some critics argue this makes seeking an abortion easier than the adoption process itself.
Currently, in New York, adoptive parents can only offer financial assistance to birth mothers for a limited period—specifically from 60 days prior to birth to 30 days post-birth. Many believe this restriction significantly limits support during crucial moments.
Governor Kathy Hochul has introduced provisions in her expansive $260 billion budget that would extend this timeframe, enabling adoptive parents to assist with costs like housing and baby supplies from 180 days before to 45 days after birth. Additionally, financial support could continue beyond these periods with court approval for circumstances that warrant longer assistance.
The governor’s budget summary notes that this form of adoption is vital for many families, benefiting both adoptive and birth parents. It also highlights that New York’s reimbursement regulations differ from other states, complicating the adoption process.
Notably, this initiative does not apply to surrogacy arrangements, which are governed by different laws.
Reform advocates point out that many adoptive parents in New York often have to go out of state to find potential birth mothers, due to the stringent local policies. Former congressman Max Rose, who adopted two children from another state, expressed his support for Hochul’s proposal, stating that he was enthusiastic about improving the process for others.
Rose noted that the adoption process in New York can be quite difficult, leading many to seek birth parents elsewhere. He shared that adopting his children has been a profoundly rewarding experience, and hopes these changes will help others navigate the adoption journey more easily.
Michael Oliva, who adopted his daughter from a different state, also applauded the governor’s efforts to alleviate financial barriers in adoption. He emphasized that the adoption process can be far more complex than many people realize, especially in New York compared to other states.
Oliva further commented that this legislative push could greatly enhance the formation of loving families, countering the cumbersome laws that have historically made the process challenging. He expressed satisfaction that there seems to be bipartisan agreement on the importance of these reforms, which ultimately benefits children and families.
Leslie Silver Hoffman, an attorney specializing in adoption, echoed the sentiment that if passed, Hochul’s proposal could foster more adoptions, labeling it a significant win for both birth mothers and adoptive parents. She emphasized the necessity of supporting women during pregnancy and stated that the covered expenses would be specifically linked to the pregnancy itself.
Supporters from the Catholic Church added that Hochul’s policy may also lead to saving lives. Dennis Paust, director of the Catholic Conference of New York, noted that more pro-adoption measures could encourage women to reconsider abortion and opt for adoption instead, highlighting current laws’ favoritism toward abortion over adoption.
He acknowledged that this shift in policy is crucial, asserting that it would address the imbalance in the state’s approach to adoption versus abortion. Paust commended Hochul, referring to her as the “first mom governor,” for championing multiple family-supportive initiatives, including the child tax credit and expansions in public childcare.





