A woman who left her husband at the airport after he was prevented from boarding a flight to see his parents did the right thing — and she may be thinking about reconsidering her relationship, this study reveals. Other Reddit users spoke in response to the unusual statement. personal drama.
Reddit user “CantaloupeLife7504” told readers of the Reddit subreddit “Am I the A–hole” (AITA) this week in a post titled “AITA didn’t get off the plane with my husband after he got fired.” , asked them to consider her situation. Are you drunk? ”
The 28-year-old woman wrote that she and her 30-year-old husband “Adam” had recently gotten married and were planning a trip to visit his father abroad.
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She said both the woman and her husband are from the same ethnic background (she did not provide details) and speak the same native language. However, she said women are more fluent and visit her family’s “homeland” more often.
“My parents were divorced and my father moved back to his home country around the time Adam and I started dating. I call him regularly, but since we moved he has come to see me twice. After that, he came to my wedding,” said Cantaloupe Life 7504. .
When the Reddit user arrived at the airport after work, she realized that her husband had arrived earlier to drop off her luggage but was too drunk to board the plane with her. Ta. (St. Petersburg)
She says her father doesn’t approve of Adam. Because of this, there were fights between Cantaloupe Life 7504 and her husband in the past. She believes that her husband did not do enough to bond with her parents.
“I was planning a trip to my home country to surprise my dad and asked Adam to come too,” the woman wrote.
“He agreed, but when I told him I was going to live with my father, he balked. What I thought The joke is that I had to drink before meeting him, but I didn’t find it funny and Adam later apologized. ”
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But this was no joke. CantaloupeLife7504 arrived at the airport on Tuesday shortly after her husband arrived, but her husband was drunk and was not allowed to board her flight.
“I called myself [brother-in-law]I remained on the plane, leaving my BIL’s phone number with the flight attendant who was able to take care of Adam,” wrote CantaloupeLife7504.
A Reddit user (not pictured) said she “joked” about her husband getting drunk before going to see his father, but it turns out he wasn’t joking. Airline officials did not allow him to board the plane. (St. Petersburg)
He continued, “Since my home country is far away, air tickets are expensive, so I took time off from work to travel.”
Cantaloupe Life 7504’s decision to board the plane and leave her husband behind left her very upset, she wrote.
He claimed that his wife “left him alone when he was drunk. If the positions had been reversed, I would never have left him alone when I was drunk.”
She added, “But I don’t think that’s fair.”
Fox News Digital has reached out to CantaloupeLife7504 for further comment and updates.
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Etiquette experts told FOX News Digital that CantaloupeLife7504 needs to talk to both her father and husband before it becomes a bigger problem, and that leaving her at the airport is fine.
“When there is a history of controversy, we can choose to adjust our attitudes.” based in california Etiquette expert Rosalinda Randall.
An etiquette expert told Fox News Digital that the Reddit user (not pictured) needs to sit her husband and father down and have a talk before things get worse. (St. Petersburg)
“If your spouse misbehaved with your parent, sit down and talk about it, separately with your father and husband, of course,” she said.
“If you don’t, you’ll have a drunk husband for the rest of your life.”
Given the circumstances of this trip, it was expensive and necessary, Randall said. work vacation — “You will need time to consider your options before deciding whether to stay or leave.”
About 6,000 people responded to the woman’s story and posted more than 700 comments.
If the husband was “consistently drunk” and was able to get a ride from the airport, a woman was justified in “finding her own seat and getting sober” on the plane.
“If your husband is often drunk because he can’t cope with life events, find your seat, calm down, and reconsider including him in future homecomings,” she said.
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In the subreddit, users can reply to posts and post comments such as “NTA” (“You’re not an A–hole”), “YTA” (“You are an A–hole”), “NAH” (“No ”). “A–holes Here”) or “ESH” (“Everyone Sucks Here”).
Users can also upvote answers they find helpful and downvote answers they don’t.
Most of the responses to the post supported the woman’s decision to leave her drunk husband at the airport and go visit her father in another country. (St. Petersburg)
About 6,000 people responded to the woman’s story and posted more than 700 comments. Most of her more than 700 replies support her decision to leave her husband at the airport, suggesting she may have bigger problems than her one trip. he warned.
Reddit user “saintandvillian” wrote in the top upvoted comment, “This man intentionally tries to ruin your time with your father because he doesn’t think highly of you. ”.
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The same user continued: “Your father probably felt that Adam was immature, mean, selfish and badly behaved.”
Reddit user “CommittedIndecisive” said in another top comment that Adam “made a conscious decision to get drunk. If he suddenly got sick and couldn’t get on the plane, you’d still be with him.” I am confident that it will happen,” he said.
“This is not what happened to him or what you did to him.”
“But this is not what happened to him or what you did to him. He decided to do this on his own and there is no one else to blame. Enjoy your visit with dad. Please,” wrote CommittedIndecisive.
Other users expressed concern that her husband may have an alcohol problem.
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“If he accidentally gets too drunk before boarding the plane, [age] 30, he has a problem. If he did it on purpose, he’s the problem,” user ‘dryadduinath’ said.
“In any case, let him disrupt your life and indulge him when he gets drunk.” [self] It doesn’t solve anything,” Dryaduinas said.
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