Some people who want children are unable to have them due to medical problems, while others choose not to have children.
In recent weeks, The Guardian investigated how friendships are affected when one person has offspring and the other does not. With this in mind, we are keen to hear from childless people who have had to navigate this scenario in their friendships. Are some of you missing friends? Or did you find a way to stay nearby? What advice would you give to others?
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please share your experience
As someone who doesn't have children, please tell us about your experiences building friendships across parenting divides in the form below.





