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Former college swimmer claims trans athlete shared suicide plan with the team

Former college swimmer claims trans athlete shared suicide plan with the team

Roanoke College Swim Team Faces Controversy Over Transgender Inclusion

September marked a significant moment for Lily Marens, a former captain of the Roanoke College women’s swim team. During the first weekend of her junior year, a pivotal team meeting was held to address the participation of biological male transgender athletes in the women’s swimming program. Marens attended this meeting virtually.

According to Marens, the intent of the meeting was to express feelings and opinions about the situation to the room manager. It was during this discussion that a member of the team shared troubling thoughts about suicidal planning and emotional struggles tied to their identity.

“Initially, we were all just really emotionally mixed up. None of us knew how to respond,” Marens recalled. She described the overwhelming discussion around navigating these complicated feelings, noting how one swimmer articulated a detailed plan concerning this troubling state of mind.

There was mention of a specific campus building as a site for a potential suicide, which raised alarm among the team members. Marens indicated that school officials remained silent throughout and after this painful revelation. Following the meeting, the team was asked to cast virtual votes on whether or not transgender athletes could compete as part of the women’s team mid-season. Marens, alongside one other teammate, opposed the inclusion, while the remainder of the group voted in favor.

“It was surprising how quickly everyone switched their stance during the meeting,” said Marens. The shift felt jarring, especially considering the weight of the mental health discussions. She expressed frustration over the disconnect between their group conversations prior to the meeting and the eventual voting outcome. “I felt compelled to vote ‘no’, but it was emotionally draining to leave the meeting and hear from friends that they were struggling,” she shared, recalling her own feelings of desperation.

Virginia Attorney General Jason Miyarez recently wrapped up an investigation into this matter, labeling the affected swimmer as “Swimmer A.” The findings revealed that this swimmer openly discussed ongoing suicidal thoughts and detailed their intentions, causing alarm among teammates.

Miyarez noted that mental health resources were not adequately addressed until after the team held a press conference on October 5, 2023, which aimed to bring attention to their concerns. Marens explained that it was only after this event that campus counselors began reaching out to the swimmers to understand the situation better.

As the semester progressed, Marens and her teammates aimed to pursue a travel course, with Japan as a top choice. However, many faced denial of their preferences, which seemed retaliatory in nature. Two female swimmers were not selected for any course, including one whose application predated the press conference.

Marens recounted the disappointing communication from the school regarding the travel courses. “My mom reached out for clarity on why I wasn’t accepted, and the response was vague. It was frustrating because I didn’t understand how my performance was being evaluated,” she explained.

Miyarez’s investigation also raised concerns over discrimination against female swimmers regarding travel course selections, suggesting that this treated them unfairly based on their gender. His report highlighted potential violations of the Virginia Human Rights Act.

Roanoke College responded to the findings with a firm denial, asserting that the allegations of misconduct were baseless and that no transgender athletes had competed on the women’s team. Nonetheless, Marens strongly disagreed with their statement, labeling it “a lie.” She argued that the swimmer in question had indeed been part of their team discussions and interactions.

In reaction to the college’s denial, Bill Bock, Marens’ legal representative, criticized the school’s stance, indicating a troubling pattern of denial regarding these issues. He echoed Marens’ frustrations about the lack of acknowledgment regarding the experiences of the female swimmers amid the ongoing investigation.

Despite the controversies, Roanoke maintained its commitment to collaborating with the Attorney General’s office regarding the investigation. Interestingly, the college has yet to address the alleged suicide claims involving the transgender athlete in their public responses.

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