New York City Schools Chancellor’s Relationship Raises Questions
Chancellor Melissa Aviles-Ramos has been reported to have had a “loving relationship” with Julian Sepulveda, the son of influential state lawmaker Luis Sepulveda. It appears she was counting on his support to maintain her position under Mayor Mamdani.
Sources indicate that her romance with Sepulveda began prior to her filing for divorce from her husband. Now, that relationship complicates things for Senator Sepulveda when it comes to advocating for Aviles-Ramos.
Aviles-Ramos, who is 43, and Sepulveda, 33, started dating while her marriage was in a rocky state, although they hadn’t yet finalized their separation. Sepulveda has openly expressed his support for educators, making their connection seem inevitable.
A former Energy Department official noted, “Everyone knew she was with Julian. It was a big open secret.” Interestingly, a screenshot shared showed Aviles-Ramos once posting a selfie with Sepulveda while on a trip to Puerto Rico in September 2022.
Department of Education spokeswoman Nicole Brownstein confirmed the relationship, stating, “The two have been in a loving relationship for several years.” However, Aviles-Ramos’s ex-husband’s lawyer, J.C. Polanco, denied any wrongdoing, explaining that both had been on the path to divorce before it was formally filed.
Polanco stated, “They just got estranged and broke up,” asserting that there was no infidelity involved, but rather two people moving on with their lives. He emphasized the importance of their relationship as co-parents.
Despite the ongoing complexities of her personal life, Aviles-Ramos has described herself as a “single mother” in conversations with the press, without delving into details about her divorce.
This situation comes at a critical juncture as Mayor Mamdani considers Aviles-Ramos for the role of New York City schools superintendent, a significant position within his administration.
She took over from David Banks and is eager to keep the position that pays $426,280 annually.
After a recent meeting with Mamdani, Aviles-Ramos expressed her commitment to public education, saying, “I’m a New York City public school mom. It’s important to me that the system works well.” If given the chance, she would welcome the opportunity to continue her work.
Senator Sepulveda, who has held political office since 2013, previously commended Aviles-Ramos after her appointment, highlighting her experience and dedication. However, he did not reveal that his son was in a relationship with her.
While it appears Sepulveda might not actively lobby for Aviles-Ramos, an aide mentioned he would still comment if the topic came up.
After starting as the state legislative director, Sepulveda left his job at the Department of Education shortly after rumors began circulating about his relationship with Aviles-Ramos. Reports suggested it was not a forced exit, but rather a transition to a new role with the Attorney General’s office.
Aviles-Ramos and her ex-husband filed for divorce in early 2023 in Jefferson County. They finalized the process in May after five months. This was a relatively quick resolution, facilitated by the less crowded courts in upstate New York.

