Today, many parents push their children too hard, so they are advised to relax and consider their children's behavior.
In an interview about how to raise resilient children, Erika Komisar, a clinical social worker, psychoanalyst, and parenting expert based in New York City, said that parents should “ease off the gas pedal” and take a hard look at their behavior. I suggested that you look at it. .
Even going back 20 years, “I noticed that the referrals I was getting were going to younger and younger kids,” she said in an interview for Columbia Magazine's Winter 2023-24 issue.
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“When I was a consultant for preschools and elementary schools in Manhattan, I noticed that more and more children were being diagnosed and treated for anxiety and depression at an early age. I started looking at every study that came into my head.”
She pointed out that indeed the “vast majority” of mothers and fathers “want the best for their children.” There is generally no objection to this.
“I can't tell you how many parents bring their kids into my office because of a B grade. They're convinced something is wrong.” (St. Petersburg)
“But sometimes I don't know what's best,” she told the magazine.
“Some people put pressure on their kids to get perfect grades. I can’t tell you how many parents bring their kids into my office because of a B grade. I’m sure I’m wrong.”
Today's world is a “more complex and competitive place,” she said, and many parents today just “keep pushing and pushing and pushing.”
She said everyone around the children is doing their best as well.
One psychoanalyst suggested that parents should ponder the following thoughts: “How do you define success in a child's life? Shouldn't that include them being happy and mentally balanced?” (St. Petersburg)
As a result, “we are pushing our children to the brink.”
She said her advice to parents for adjusting to this scenario is simple and straightforward.
They need to “relax the accelerator, become aware, and reflect.”
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In that vein, parents should ponder the following important points: “How do you define success in a child's life? Shouldn't that include them being happy and mentally balanced?”
Komisar, who holds a master's degree from Columbia University's School of Social Work, advised parents and caregivers to “spend as much time as possible with your children while they are still living together.” . [But] Don't be judgmental. Have open communication. ”
One expert said mothers and fathers should not participate in helicopter parenting and should “spend as much time as possible with their children while they are still living together.” ”[But] Don't be judgmental. Have open communication. ” (St. Petersburg)
She also strongly recommended against helicopter parents.
Parents should help their children “learn how to cope with experiences that are overwhelming for them” and “don't overdo things,” she told Columbia Magazine.
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A strong caveat is that parents who suspect suicidal tendencies should take their children for testing “immediately.”
Fox News Digital has reached out to Komisar for further comment.
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As Fox News Digital previously reported, a recent survey of 2,000 adults found that many would be more than happy to give their younger selves some clever and helpful tips.
Among the tips related to parenting etc. is to “relax and enjoy the drive''.
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“Also, please take care of your mental health.”
And finally, “celebrate small victories.”
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