Are you taking your friend's life?
Some people just drain your energy, not because you had a lot of fun together.
Also known as “energy vampires,” these people drain your emotional energy, whether intentionally or not.
“Energy Vampire” character Colin Robinson in the show “What We Do in the Shadows” suck the lives of people around youbore them with small talk and unnecessary facts that require food.
But there are different types of this kind of scary people, says Alla Svirinskaya, a stellar energy healer and author of the best-selling book “Energy Rules”: This was revealed to the Daily Mail.
chat box
Have you ever stopped a conversation because you realized you've said most of it? That might drive your friend away.
Ara says: “The other person often feels trapped, not knowing how to interrupt your monologue. They become consumed by your relentless demands for attention.
“It's important to engage with people, not just talk to them,” she advised.
manipulator
Some people only reach out when they need something, whether it's an invitation or advice.
“As soon as someone realizes that they are being used for connections and connections and that their generosity is being abused, it can lead to a long-term lack of trust in the new person,” Ara told the Daily Mail. Ta.
“A healthy friendship should benefit both parties.”
negative nelly
See how the glass is half empty? Well, having to refill your cup and reframe your mindset takes a lot out of your friend.
“Behaving this way can make the other person doubt themselves and their own positive thinking. They need to 'shrink' their light to fit your shadow.” You need to stop taking things personally, accept that people make mistakes, and stop twisting the narrative to support your idea that everything is negative and hopeless. That's not true! ” she said.
gossip
Most people love getting together with their best friends and having a little chat. But if you're always gossiping about others and criticizing everyone, it can get tiring.
“People often do this to boost their own low self-esteem. They boost themselves by putting others down. Eventually your friends stop trusting you and your friendships become shallow. , there will be no close connections,” Ara said.
show boat
It's normal to talk about your accomplishments with friends, but some people have a knack for turning the entire conversation into a boast.
“Even if a friend starts a conversation about their success or glory, that person will find a way to turn it into how great they are,” Ara explained.
“Your friends start to feel like just a mirror for you to see yourself in. Your narcissism and lack of empathy make people feel alone in your presence.”
eternal victims and martyrs
Is the world against you? Well, if you always act like a victim or martyr, your friend may soon become one too.
“These people often turn to friends for advice, but if those friends don't support the victim's story, they lose interest,” Ara says.
“People feel exhausted when thrown into the trash as an outlet for their own toxic fumes, while martyrs suffocate others with their projected guilt.”
