We are in an age where technology is undeniably transforming the way we search for information, from using AI to find recommendations for nearby restaurants to scroll through Tiktok for inspiration for innate nature.
There is another surprising trend now, with around 9.9% of Australian adults, or about 1.9 million, turning to ChatGpt for health-related questions.
The days of Dr. Google may be behind us soon, but is the one who is trying to give you the answer you really want, trying to give you the answer you really want?
“It's important that anyone who asks questions about sex and joy can receive answers from reliable sources,” said spokesman Verena Singmann. We are vibea global global brand in sexual pleasure for couples.
“Technology can be a useful tool when it comes to sex and joy, but AI isn’t necessarily the best when it comes to sexual health and happiness.
“Cultural biases should also be taken into consideration, as AI is not always able to distinguish between general beliefs and personal advice.”
To provide credible and credible evidence-based information for people to help their relationships, two leading sexual experts share insights on some of the most common sexually related questions about ChatGPT.
“How can I improve my sex life?”
According to Alice Child, sex and relationship experts Womanizer,The first step is to receive an education.
“A good lover is born and made,” she insists.
“Go out and learn as much as you can about gender, joy, communication and the body. Find the right resources for you, including podcasts, books, online courses, workshops, consulting for couples counselors and sex specialists.
“Surrounded by experts, sexual positivity, physical positivity, modern education, and challenge your own assumptions and beliefs that may be hindering you. Porn is no substitute for sex education!”
She then advises people to engage in sex and do variety and solo play.
“Good sex is different for everyone, so you first learn what you like through self-joy, adult toys, fantasy and self-discovery,” she says.
“What is the best way to increase sexual pleasure for myself and my partner?”
Cam Fraser, a sex and relationship expert at We-Vibe, says the answer to this question is more about deepening, being, connecting and deepening your perception of the senses, rather than simply striving to the climax.
“What we can experiment with includes slowing breathing, focusing on the touch, discovering parts of the body beyond just the genitals that you find fun to touch,” he explains. “Then try this with your partner.”
“From trying to achieve orgasm, for example, to fully experience the moment, to explore the body, maintain eye contact, breathe together, approach with curiosity.”
“How can I communicate my desires and boundaries in my bedroom?”
“I always recommend starting a conversation about desires and boundaries outside the bedroom,” Fraser points out.
“This will help normalize discussions about gender and joy without pressure or expectations. Have a conversation about what excites you, what interests you, and what feels good when you're eating breakfast or going for a walk together.”
He suggests not saying, “I don't like the sex we have,” but instead frame the conversation positively and keep the focus on joy.
How can I last longer during sex?
According to Fraser, there are three main ways to last long during sex.
First, you can relax your muscles slowly, breathe deeply, and concentrate on other parts of your body that you feel pleasure, reducing the physical tension you experience with intimacy.
Secondly, regardless of how it looks, reduces sexually related psychological anxiety by not worrying whether you will quickly approach the climax and instead approach in a fun and playful way.
Finally, by exploring joy with your partner in a way that does not involve genital stimulation, it reduces tension in the relationship and prioritizes joy and connection simply by lasting.
“If you're experiencing bad sex for 30 seconds to a client who is struggling with this and just learning to last, you'll end up having bad sex for three minutes,” he adds.
What is the best way to naturally increase libido?
“When it comes to naturally boosting your sexual desires, think about the times of your life where you felt most confident, authentic and happy,” the child says, and “look back at what was happening in those times.”
“Think about lifestyle factors (e.g. where you live, what you do, the company you hold, how you exercise and eat), mental and emotional aspects (e.g., mental health, confidence, body image, and how you are satisfied), and physical factors (e.g., physical health, sleep, medication).
“Also take your time to remember the moments when you felt excited and enjoyed having sex and write down what will excite you.
From there, she says she thinks to start practicing daily pleasures to reconnect with your body and your sexual triggers.
“This includes using new toys to make the experience even more thrilling.”
What are the most common turn-ons and turn-offs for men and women?
“There are a lot of different fantasies and desires,” Fraser assures.
However, he discovers from conversations with many clients that most people are turned on by confidence, presence and authentic connection, and is turned off by rushing, feeling hesitant or lack of enthusiasm.
If you are interested in what turns your partner on or off, he asks them and suggests finding a way to explore those emotions along with curiosity, openness and playfulness.
Is my sexual preferences and fantasy normal?
Human sexuality is broad and diverse, and there is nothing like “normal,” says children.
“Many people worry about this, but the truth is that human eroticism is broad and complicated, and your fantasy and twists are far more common than you think.
“It's not harmful if you share your sexual preferences and fantasies with your partner and it's between an enthusiastic, agreed and well-informed adult that doesn't negatively affect your life, mental and physical health, safety, or your relationship.”
