Reflections on a Changing America

Last month, Sen. Lisa Murkowski (R-Alaska) had a conversation with a resident from her hometown. She expressed a sentiment that many might share: “We’re all afraid… because retribution is real.” This reveals a significant shift in our national identity.

Post-World War II, Americans felt proud—imbued with a sense of generosity, decency, and an admirable view of those they served and the nations they represented. Yet, this idealized vision had its flaws. Instances like the brutal treatment of civil rights demonstrators in 1965 at Edmund Pettus Bridge in Selma, Alabama, and major scandals, such as the Watergate incident, cast shadows over that glory. During those times, people turned to the presidency as a beacon of reassurance that their core values remained intact.

And indeed, several presidents managed to project that image effectively. Gerald Ford symbolized integrity and humility, often characterized by iconic images of him making breakfast. Jimmy Carter aimed for an administration marked by honesty and fairness, claiming he would embody what the American people truly desired. Ronald Reagan reassured citizens in 1984 that America consisted of fundamentally good people whose values—tolerance and compassion—should guide governance. Fast forward to the year 2000, and George W. Bush emphasized a belief in love over judgment.

However, that positive portrayal of the presidency has taken a hit in recent times.

In a 2025 Easter message, Donald Trump depicted those on the “other side” in stark terms, describing them as radical, harmful, and mentally unstable individuals infiltrating the country. This kind of rhetoric not only targeted immigrants but also included accusations against those perceived as part of the so-called deep state. One former federal employee, who dedicated 24 years to public service and cybersecurity, expressed feelings of being treated like an adversary.

During his first rally after winning the 2024 election, Trump showcased a film that sensationally portrayed immigrants, further inflaming tensions. There are also disturbing reports of American children being abruptly deported to Honduras—one child with advanced cancer being cut off from necessary medical treatment.

The emerging narrative suggests that the global perception of Americans is shifting. Anne Applebaum notes the rise of stereotypes portraying Americans as brutal rather than just loud or straightforward. In a recent interfaith prayer service, Bishop Marian Budde urged Trump to show mercy to the vulnerable, resulting in backlash from some prominent figures who criticized her plea as a “sin of empathy.”

Public sentiment indicates growing discomfort with societal behavior. Recent surveys indicate that 47% of Americans feel people have become ruder since the onset of the Covid-19 pandemic, with 20% believing the change is particularly pronounced.

It’s worth noting that it’s not solely Trump who reflects this shift. Representatives like Jasmine Crockett (D-Texas) have been vocal, using strong language in response to his congressional address. Those in public roles are expected to model decency, yet the rampant hostility seen online often contradicts that expectation—fueled by a culture that rewards inflammatory speech.

Reflecting on significant events like the Oklahoma City bombing, which claimed 168 lives, including 19 children, reveals an inherent resilience within the nation. Bill Clinton, during a remembrance ceremony, emphasized values of service, honor, and kindness. He argued that America needs to cultivate these “Oklahoma standards.”

Pope Francis, in his own writings, highlighted the necessity of courtesy and love starting with oneself and one’s family.

In the past, figures like Senator Joseph McCarthy faced repercussions for their accusations against perceived adversaries, which ultimately led to Lyndon Welch’s poignant question about decency. Today, Corey Booker (D-N.J.) describes America as at a “moral moment,” one that could shape the nation for years to come.

In this critical time, one must question: Where does our sense of decency stand? What kind of nation do we aspire to be?