Jesse James Decker Discusses Key to a Happy Marriage
Jesse James Decker, married to former NFL player Eric Decker for nearly 15 years, believes that the foundation of a happy marriage isn’t about lavish gestures. Instead, she values quiet evenings spent at home, especially given their hectic lives.
In a recent interview, she mentioned, “We don’t put too much pressure on ourselves for the holidays.” For her, a special occasion like Valentine’s Day doesn’t necessitate extravagant displays like roses or champagne. Decker is also involved with AbbVie’s Love in Mind Initiative, aimed at raising awareness about migraine issues.
Adjusting to Parenthood
With four children, including a toddler who turns two soon, Decker finds that the way they celebrate milestones has evolved. “I feel like we just blinked, and he’s already walking and being a little toddler,” she reflected. Finding small moments to connect at home is crucial for their relationship.
“It’s really cheesy to say we love each other every day,” she added, explaining that they don’t need grand events to feel connected. Quiet evenings after the kids are asleep allow them to enjoy shows together or share a glass of wine. “We’re homebound. We don’t like to go out much,” she said with a laugh. “We love putting on our jammies and socks and just being together.”
Shared Values Create Stability
As their family grows, Decker credits their strong relationship to shared priorities. “Eric and I have been together for 15 years next month,” she shared, noting that focusing on what matters most helps them succeed. They’ve navigated life together—career changes, uprooting, and everyday chaos—while remaining connected.
As a couple, they find strength in shared values. “We see the world the same way. We love the same things,” she said. They work together through life’s challenges, raising Denver, Vivian, Eric (“Bubby”), and Forrest as a cohesive unit.
Migraine Awareness Through Love in Mind Initiative
Decker also emphasizes communication and care in relationships, especially regarding chronic conditions like migraines. “When someone says they have a problem or are in pain, you should listen,” she advises. She noted how crucial it is to treat others as one would want to be treated, particularly in the context of health struggles.
Reflecting on her own experiences, Decker expressed gratitude for Eric’s support during health challenges. “I’m really lucky that Eric has been able to do it all these years,” she said, highlighting that not everyone has similar support. It’s vital, she believes, to find a reliable support system and routine that works for you.
