The New York dating scene is a big red flag.
Searching for a significant other in the Big Apple is notoriously wild and “cuttled,” especially for those looking for a real, lasting relationship.
In a WalletHub survey, the city that never sleeps ranked pretty low on the list of places where romance thrives — a sad 144th out of 182 to be exact.
Gotham’s view of romance isn’t the most positive, but relationship experts say that’s true.
“There are so many people out there who are emotionally unavailable, and I don’t know why,” Catalina, a single woman from New York, told The Post. “Relationships are great.”
Gen Z singles flocked to their favorite tabloids to weigh in on the trials, tribulations, and harmful traits they should avoid in order to live happily ever after in New York City.
Rachel Love, New York
Love has no patience for a partner who is unambitious and ungoal-oriented. Love sees this lack of direction as a warning sign.
“Someone with no vision or goals in life,” Love told the Post.
Brett Rejwan, Manhattan
Rejwan wants a partner who has only good vibes in him, as he claims that negative people dampen his cheerful energy.
“That’s a bit disappointing,” he said. “I like a good atmosphere.”
A Manhattan bachelor who was spotted shirtless in Washington Square Park seems happy to date a woman who enjoys the sun and exudes positive vibes.
Brook, Connecticut
Nutmegger is committed to marriage and has no interest in Greek life.
In fact, she has no interest in men associated with sororities and claims that it’s a big no-no.
“I avoid my college sorority boys,” she told The Washington Post.
She revealed that what she hates most is “narcissistic men” who don’t take the time to ask about her during a conversation.
“I’ll ask a guy about his life and what he enjoys and he’ll never ask me any questions back,” Brooke scoffed.
Larry Lee, UK
Lee, a Gen Zer from across the Atlantic, shared a list of warning signs she’d compiled from her own harrowing experiences in the world of dating.
“Avoid guys who are too nice to too many women and don’t know boundaries,” Lee told The Washington Post, adding that she’s wary of men who are “too much of a mama’s boy.”
She also finds it unattractive when men don’t reply to her messages in a timely manner or only want to meet at specific times.
Cameron Gottlieb, Long Island
Gottlieb wants a woman who respects his desire for “bro time,” where he can spend time with friends without upsetting his partner.
The New Yorker revealed that his ex-girlfriend had issues with him wanting to have a social life away from her, which forced them to split.
“This is a big deal,” he said, before confessing: “To my ex, if you’re watching this, I’m sorry.”
Anya, Manhattan
The single Manhattan woman told The Washington Post that she hates people who are rude to service employees, claiming it’s “the biggest red flag for anyone.”
Other singles interviewed agreed with Anya and found it unattractive when their date was rude to waitresses and servers.
El Debratt, Manhattan
Manhattan makeup artist Elle DeBratto loves the color red, but she can also easily spot red flags in her dates.
“People who seem to take themselves a little too seriously,” DeBratt says, “I think it’s about balance. You have to dance through life, have fun and go with the flow.”
Jordy B, Jersey City
Jordie B., a fitness trainer from New Jersey, admits she’s “a big communicator,” and considers it a red flag when phone calls stop coming through.
“I’m not saying, ‘Text me every hour,’ but at least let me know what’s going on throughout the day. If you don’t let me know, then I know you don’t really care,” he told The Post.
