So far, more than 3,000 people have commented on the romantic drama, which has resonated on social media, with more than 7,300 people reacting.
“This guy I met online claimed to be 4 years older than me, no big deal. I’m 24,” one woman wrote over the weekend.
“We have the same interests and became good friends,” wrote a woman with the username “Defiant-Box9928.”
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“So we decided to meet up and go for drinks last weekend,” she added.
She posted her story on Reddit’s “Am I Wrong?” page. — A popular site for sharing personal dilemmas and seeking other people’s thoughts and opinions.
The woman said, “I went to a bar and was looking for the man I was planning to meet.” Shortly after, things took a turn for the worse. (AP Photo/Julio Cortez, File)
She wrote, “I went to the bar looking for him.”
When she finally found him, “he seemed different, older,” she said.
“I went to see him,” she said, and told him he “looked different than the pictures.”
The woman told him, “You don’t look like the photo.”
“Oh yeah, those photos are from a few years ago,” the man replied, the woman wrote of his response.
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According to her testimony, the woman told him, “But you’re 28 years old, right?”
He replied, “Actually, I was 42 years old, but age is just a number.”
One woman told others that a recent situation she encountered at a bar made her feel unsafe and left the bar early. She said: “She got a message from him and asked where she was so I went home and said I’m not interested in older men and I can’t lie.” A woman wrote about a questionable date. (St. Petersburg)
The woman said she “felt sick” at that point.
So she said, “I left my cell phone in the car and went out.”
she didn’t return.
She continued on her account, “He sent me a message asking where I was so I went home and told him I wasn’t interested in older men or that I couldn’t lie.” Ta.
“I went home and said I wasn’t interested in older men and I couldn’t lie to them.”
She wrote that the man replied, “I didn’t tell you my real age because I was shallow.”
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She added of what happened: “Honestly, I thought the whole thing was strange, so I told my friends.”
However, her friends did not support her actions.
“She told me this [was] It makes sense that he just ended the date without even telling me that maybe he was a nice guy and I was being critical of him because of his age. ”
When a woman told a friend that she suddenly left a bar because she felt uncomfortable, the friend did not support her actions. (St. Petersburg)
But the woman on Reddit added: “I’m not interested in men that old. People can do what they want, but they’re not for me.”
At the end, she asked the others on stage, “Am I wrong to quit?”
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The top comments posted about this dilemma were: [age] is just a number, so why lie? you are not wrong. I’m glad you left. ”
This comment received approximately 2,700 “up votes.”
“I’m glad I didn’t waste my time with someone who showed me on the first date that they didn’t have good morals.”
Another person wrote in the same thread: “If age is just a number, why would he want a much younger woman instead of someone his own age?”
Yet another commenter offered this verdict. “Never feel bad about putting your safety first. People will tell you that you should be polite or whatever they think is socially acceptable.” A young woman says she has a ‘spicy sense’ When you’re faced with a situation that makes you tingle, it’s not the time to be polite. It’s time to find a way out, quickly! ”
The young woman who shared her story (not pictured) was so uncomfortable with the man’s story that she asked others if she had made a mistake by abruptly quitting the date. More than 7,300 people shared their reactions online. (I stock)
This additional answer also summarizes other people’s feelings. “I’m glad you didn’t waste your time on someone who shows you on the first date that they don’t have a reasonable moral compass.”
Finally, this comment brought up a point that others didn’t notice. “Your friend doesn’t care about you. I won’t take her advice anymore. Why would she care more about a man who is clearly waving red flags than she cares about herself?” “What about you?” “
“Our intuition is always trying to tell us something if we listen.”
The source added: “Doesn’t she realize this is a potentially dangerous situation? And you were absolutely right to dump this guy. Get out of there as soon as possible.” I’m glad you did,” he added.
Fox News Digital has attempted to contact the original poster for additional updates.
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In further comments she posted to others about what happened, the woman stood by her actions and clarified that “if I had known how old he was, I would never have met him in the first place.”
In an article published on Medium a few years ago, author Amy K. Stanton wrote, “Our intuition is always trying to tell us something, if only we listen.”
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“But too often, we don’t do that. We drown it out by overanalyzing or guessing,” said Stanton, a California-based entrepreneur. ‘, ‘ridiculous’, or even ‘witchy’ and ignored.” Eventually, our intuition becomes a muffled whisper, pushed further and further into the corners of our minds. ”
She also said, “This is a mistake, and a potentially life-changing mistake, because intuition powerful. ”
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