Reflecting on Independence Day and Veterans’ Care
My husband and I spent Independence Day with family, a tradition for many across the U.S. Yet, for us, this year felt particularly significant. You see, Kyle, an active naval officer, has often been stationed far from home during our marriage. This time, we hoped for a sense of normalcy, but the realities of military life weigh heavily on us.
As Kyle nears retirement, we’ve become increasingly aware of the challenges veterans face, especially with the VA’s repeated failures. Perhaps it’s because we’ve witnessed these shortcomings directly; the disconnect between promises made and the reality experienced by veterans is alarming.
The VA has long pledged dedicated care to veterans, but, regrettably, that promise seems to fall flat daily.
A Disheartening Reality
From December 2023 to June of this year, I took on the role of my husband’s ship’s ombudsman for the USS Harry S. Truman. This position allowed me to bridge the connection between our military command and families, offering resources and support during emergencies. Through this role, I’ve seen firsthand the struggles of service members and their families as they navigate the VA benefits system—a journey rife with obstacles and disappointments.
What was evident to me was a sense of betrayal.
Many veterans find themselves fighting to access their well-earned benefits, often dealing with serious mental health issues and the repercussions of their deployments. The backlog of unprocessed claims at the VA persists, with nearly 185,000 claims still pending as of June—a daunting figure, though there’s been some recent improvement.
Such delays understandably take their toll on veterans’ lives, leaving them feeling unvalued and frustrated.
The Need for Legislative Action
Given these challenges, there’s a growing consensus that state legislators must step in where the VA has faltered. For instance, in my home state, Rhode Island, Congress introduced the Save Act, aiming to ease the claims process by permitting veterans to hire certified consultants—an effort to protect them from potential fraud and exploitation. Sadly, this proposal faced rejection, illustrating the uphill battle many veterans face even within their own communities.
While the VA claims to be making strides in addressing the backlog, decades of mismanagement and miscommunication can’t be undone overnight. There’s a lingering question: how many veterans were rushed through the system to meet quotas, leaving them underserved?
Valuing Our Veterans
Kyle took a solemn oath to serve, just like countless other veterans who deserve the care promised to them. This commitment was a bargain of sorts—a trade of their comfort and safety for ours. Yet, time and again, we see that the systems set in place to support them fall short. Grievously long delays and bureaucratic obstacles force many veterans to fight repeatedly for the benefits they’ve earned, or even worse, they may never see them at all.
This Independence Day, as we traveled along the East Coast, I couldn’t help but reflect on the life Kyle envisioned for us post-retirement. The VA should enable that dream, not hinder it. It’s high time for lawmakers to fulfill their obligations and prioritize the welfare of our veterans.





