Medieval Times: A Charming Escape for Modern Romance

Young women are increasingly seeking romance at Medieval Times events, choosing knights over dating apps. This trend seems to align with the popularity of romantasy—a blend of romance and fantasy—now prevalent in both literature and media, like Game of Thrones.

Medieval Times, established in 1983, offers an interactive dinner theater experience across various locations. Attendees enjoy a medieval tournament featuring knights competing while savoring themed meals, all while cheering for their favorite knight during jousting, swordfighting, and falconry displays.

Popular podcaster Brittany Brosky highlighted this phenomenon after discussing her own flirtations with knights on her show. It’s intriguing how these events spark connections, and it seems they’re becoming a go-to for many.

Marissa Matozzo from the New York Post noted how the charm of these events melds fun with flirtation. She remarked that amidst combat and royal ceremonies, knights engage with the audience, creating a modern fairy tale ambiance that resonates with many. In fact, for some attendees, it’s an opportunity to live out childhood fantasies about gallant knights.

Madison Ray, a 28-year-old from Florida, reflected on her experiences. “We grew up on Disney movies, which promised us knights in shining armor. Now that we’re adults, some guys on apps can’t even set a date after weeks of talking. It’s frustrating,” she shared. In a bold move, she even sewed her phone number into a handkerchief, planning to hand it to a knight.

“It feels a bit like Hooters, but for women,” she joked. The excitement heightens when you watch knights jousting and galloping; there’s just something about it that draws people in. She humorously suggested that men could boost their dating prospects by donning more armor.

Nikki Sabate, 31, from California, echoed the sentiment, recalling a memorable moment when she locked eyes with a knight who tossed her a rose. “Nothing compares to that feeling in a crowded room,” she expressed. The portrayal of knights as loyal and brave enhances the allure of the experience. “Dating feels like too much work nowadays. In stories, knights exert effort for their quests, which is why this attention feels rewarding,” she added.

Dr. Shahrzad Jalali, a clinical psychologist, offered insights into this trend, suggesting that these events allow for real connections without the complexities of modern dating. “There are no curated profiles or algorithms—just genuine moments that remind women of their worth,” she explained. Many women, despite being independent, appreciate the chivalry that reconnects them with feelings of being valued.

Similarly, Dr. Courtney Cantrell pointed out that traditional tales of knights resonate with childhood narratives of rescue and romance. The overload of choices on dating apps can lead to burnout, and the structured environment of Medieval Times fosters a sense of safety and commitment.