In Carville, Texas, community members are coming together to support one another following severe flooding earlier this month. Survivors are finding solace and strength as they work to rebuild their lives amidst the devastation.
Colonel Juan Gomez, a Salvation Army officer from Texalcana, expressed his thoughts on the emotional support being offered. He remarked, “We can’t measure the help we provide by simply being there for someone. It’s more complex than just offering a shoulder to cry on.” His commitment is palpable, as he moved over 460 miles to assist those in need, taking on the role of emotional care officer.
He acknowledged the profound loss experienced by many: “We’re talking about loss of life, homes—people are struggling to establish new routines. Their lives have turned upside down.” The impact is deeply felt, especially for families who are left heartbroken. One such family is the Boltons.
Bud Bolton, a local resident, lost his home in the floods. Confronted with the reality of neighbors who suffered even greater losses, he found himself overwhelmed. Licensed therapist Kenneth Howard noted that responses to trauma vary widely. Families grieving for children face different challenges compared to those who have simply lost possessions. But Howard believes that faith and community play critical roles in helping individuals cope. “Some people can lean on their beliefs, which helps them navigate difficult circumstances better,” he stated. “Those with such support can weather storms more effectively than those without it.” He emphasized the importance of access to trauma-trained professionals, especially those using EMDR therapy to minimize PTSD risks, and highlighted organizations like the Salvation Army for their role in fostering community connections and healing.
Reflecting on the intertwining of therapy and faith, Ashton’s perspectives emerged. He mentioned that while therapy is beneficial, spiritual resilience can significantly aid in facing challenges. “When trying to tackle problems on our own, it often feels futile. Just having someone to lean on can change everything,” he said, recalling a meaningful conversation with a relative that helped lighten his emotional load.
Gomez shares a deeper personal connection with this situation. He experienced the trauma of Hurricane Brett in Texas back in 1999, which left a lasting impression on him. It was during that time he saw the value of support services, which encouraged him to serve others in need. “Those experiences taught me the importance of being there for people. Everyone deals with grief differently,” he noted. Some may require just a brief exchange, while others might need an entire community to lean on.
Ashon concluded with a hopeful sentiment about community, asserting, “We truly need each other’s kindness and generosity during times like these. At the core, we have to support each other as family.” Kenneth Howard encapsulated this idea of connection with the word ‘Shalom’, which signifies peace and community belonging—layers of relationships that can help restore individuals after trauma. “In traumatic times, when connections break, it’s vital to rebuild those relationships—faith fosters that unity,” he explained.
