True Romance: Love is Still Alive

It’s Thursday in mid-October, and here we are again with the latest musings on romance. Today, I want to challenge the idea that romance is dead, that it no longer holds a place in our lives.

I know some might feel this way, but I’d like to share a few examples that show—despite what some might call a downward trend—there are people making love happen. There’s still hope for us all.

We’ve got stories ranging from a smooth athlete’s DM to a couple who pole dances together, and even some actors who brought romance into their work life. So, grab a candle, settle in, and let’s dive in.

Long before the playful butt squeezes during pregame or messages scribbled on the backs of pants, a classic romantic moment unfolded when an athlete took his shot.

The Dallas Cowboys tight end messaged a former college athlete and influencer with a simple line that turned out to be quite effective. It’s one anyone can use, really.

Haley shared on an episode of a popular podcast that he just slid into her DMs and asked, “How’s your golf game?”

This common notion that you can’t meet new people, that shooting off a random DM rarely works out—that’s not always true. A smooth opener like “How’s your golf game?” can create sparks. They hit it off, and now they’re married, ready to share their unique love story with grandkids someday.

Their tale is timeless: Grandpa played in the NFL, while Grandma danced on TikTok. It’s a classic love story, isn’t it?

Haley pointed out, “I try to stay even-keeled about all of this. I wasn’t searching for anything specific, and I’m not sure if Ferg was either, at the time.”

But, as their connection unfolded over ten straight days together, she found him to be a genuine and grounded person.

If you’re struggling to find that connection, maybe you just aren’t looking in the right places—or your DMs aren’t hitting the mark. It’s not too late; shoot off a message to a TikToker about golf and see where it leads!

Couples Who Pole Dance Together

Now, if that couple had been pole dancing together, perhaps the husband-to-be wouldn’t have made such a faux pas at the altar. You see, couples who share the experience of pole dancing have a unique bond, or so they say.

Take Misha and Sam from Los Angeles, for instance. If they’re relying on pole dancing to keep their romance alive as newlyweds, well, that might be an overreach—but they do provide an interesting look at how some couples strengthen their connection.

Their first dance was filled with impressive moves on a polished pole, which turned out to be quite the crowd-pleaser. I mean, who would’ve thought that could be an activity to showcase instead of just keeping it private?

According to Misha, there’s a stigma around pole dancing; people often associate it only with stripping. “Sure, it has sensual roots, but it’s also incredibly athletic and way harder than it looks. We adore it,” she shared.

Sam added that many assume pole dancing is solely for women. “It can be unusual for people to see a man doing it alongside his partner, but I don’t let that bother me,” he explained, before highlighting how both partners must support each other during routines—a perfect metaphor for marriage.

If you’re open to new experiences, you might just find the person you want to partner up with for life. Isn’t that a charming thought?

This Week in True Romance

Speaking of romance, let’s check back on last week’s poll regarding what to do if your fiancé accidentally calls you by your sister’s name at the altar. Shockingly, despite the woman in question going through with it, a hefty 72.5% believe you should leave that guy right there.

Now, let’s shift gears to Keri Russell and Matthew Rhys, who reportedly couldn’t keep their hands off each other while filming *The Americans*. They’ve been together since 2013, and it turns out they often took advantage of their time on set to explore their relationship in, shall we say, unconventional locations.

Keri shared during a podcast that they effectively spent their free time in costumes, “We were falling in love, staying up all night and having sex everywhere, mostly in disguise. It was wild and fun!”

As humorous as that may sound, it’s certainly another example of keeping love alive in surprising ways.

What’s the Male Equivalent of Seductive Lingerie?

Now here’s an interesting question: What’s the male equivalent when a woman wears sexy underwear, expecting it to turn heads? After a lot of discussion, it seems that while some put in the effort, expectations should really be adjusted.

Some guys find ways to make an effort too, like ensuring their underwear isn’t falling apart or even pulling off a Borat-style mankini. A bit of humor goes a long way!

• Wearing well-kept underwear
• Making a regular visit to see family
• Bringing out a thick wallet
• Cleaning up their space
• Doing last-minute pushups
• Grooming themselves
• Sporting well-chosen attire
• Prepping a clean, fresh environment

Song of the Week

A shoutout from a reader named MP who suggested a classic song, “The Girl of My Best Friend” by Ral Donner, as it perfectly captures a sentiment of longing without crossing boundaries—a smart play on his part!

And there you have it, we made it through another week of romantic musings. Let’s meet again next Thursday! Keep those song recommendations coming, and if you’ve had a smooth DM experience, I’d love to hear about it.

As always, feel free to reach out, anonymously if you wish, via email. Let’s keep the conversation alive on social platforms too!