A Brooklyn building manager who died in a confrontation with package thieves is being mourned by his family, who remember him as a Kosovo war refugee and a dedicated father of three. This comes as the suspect involved in the incident awaits formal charges.
Brim Havori, 41, was killed while on duty in Ditmas Park, an area reportedly facing issues with package theft and disruptive individuals, as noted by neighbors and relatives.
“He died doing what he thought was right, looking out for the tenants,” his brother Belerim Havori shared. “He genuinely cared about everyone. He had such a big heart. Just an incredible guy.”
“He was a wonderful family man. His wife and children will greatly feel his absence,” he added. “What is this world coming to? Those kids of his will have to grow up without their father.”
The 30-year-old suspect, arrested shortly after the incident, is facing ongoing prosecution.
“They need to be held accountable,” said Ingrid Compton, a long-time resident. “Justice needs to be served, and there should be consequences.”
While the suspect hasn’t been formally charged yet, law enforcement has noted he has multiple prior arrests, including for robbery and assault.
Carolyn Banfield, the mother of the suspect’s ex-girlfriend, mentioned that their relationship ended amidst jealousy issues.
What charges could be filed in Havori’s death remains to be seen, largely depending on autopsy results.
In the meantime, a funeral is planned for Havori in his hometown in Kosovo, according to a family announcement on social media.
A recent post stated, “I want to let friends and family know that my son, brother, father, and beloved Brim Havori has passed away unexpectedly. He came to the U.S. to work and start a family, leaving behind his wife Jehona and children Joni, Durata, and Kuroni.”
Havori had been overseeing the building for over 15 years and once spoke to the press about a disturbing crime involving a resident back in 2013.
He recalled that incident, reflecting on the tragedy where a mother committed a horrific act against her child.
Residents remember Havori for his protective nature toward the building and its tenants.
“We made it through the war as refugees,” his brother said. “My mother has been ill for two years. He went back home to see her, saying he wasn’t sure if he’d see her again.”
“He just returned from Europe two days before this happened, having gone to visit his girlfriend,” the brother added. “He expressed concern for her well-being.”
