Exploring Parental Sacrifices in “I Find You”

What should parents avoid doing for their children? That’s a central theme in the new Netflix series, I Find You, starring Sam Worthington and Britt Lower. The show revolves around David Burrows (played by Worthington), a father who was convicted of his son’s murder more than five years ago. With the help of his sister-in-law (Lower), he embarks on a quest to uncover the truth behind his child’s fate.

Based on Harlan Coben’s popular novel, the series reveals that David might actually have a chance to prove his innocence—and, intriguingly, that his son could still be alive. This narrative resonates deeply with both Worthington and Lower, especially as they are parents themselves.

Lower reflected on this connection in a recent discussion, mentioning, “All of us in this series have young kids. Erin Richards, Milo [Ventimiglia], Sam, and I bonded over that. When you have kids in your life, you’ll go to any lengths for them.” She’s a stepmother of two, while Worthington has three sons with wife Lara. It’s not just talk; for instance, Lower once made headlines for her dedication when she aimed to get Ariana Grande’s autograph for her stepdaughter. Can we blame her?

“The core of this story is about how far you go for your family, especially young ones,” Lower continued. She clarified that achieving her goal of getting the autograph was a personal mission and relates to the sacrifices made by David and her character.

As for the possibility of continuing these characters’ stories in a second season, it’s something they’re thinking about.

Decider: You both have played different versions of the same character before, like in Avatar and Severance. Has that experience influenced your bond?

Lower: I didn’t think about that initially. But interestingly, we share the same birthday, August 2, so we bonded over that instead.

Sam, do you find it easier to step into these complex roles because of your past experiences?

Worthington: I think Britt has done more of that than I have.

Lower: Yeah, perhaps. But what’s fascinating is how every character embodies different aspects of themselves, leading to internal conflicts, especially in a complex narrative like this.

What stood out for you when diving into these roles?

Worthington: Coben’s stories are renowned for their twists and cliffhangers, and I aim to find authenticity within that chaos. It’s tricky to develop genuine relationships amidst all the suspense, but when done right, it’s captivating.

Lower: Since we’re adapting a book, seeing unexpected elements come to life during filming is always a thrill. My co-stars bring surprises that enhance the portrayal, allowing for a richer experience.

Worthington: It’s rare to get a writer who trusts actors to explore the characters creatively. That collaboration is quite special.

Brit, I heard about your mission for your stepdaughter’s autograph at the Golden Globes. How did that go?

Lower: I dashed over during a commercial break, and thankfully, Ariana was generous with her time. My stepdaughter was thrilled! We all share that kinship; having young kids inspires us to do whatever it takes for them.

Sam, any personal anecdotes that resonate?

Worthington: I was so nervous meeting Karl-Anthony Towns recently that my knees went weak. They likely wouldn’t believe I met him!

On to Milo, as the show’s antagonist, do you think fans will be surprised to see him in that role?

Lower: Definitely! Milo is such a wonderful person, his portrayal adds depth to this complex character.

Reflect on the last episodes. How have the dynamics changed?

Worthington: It’s complicated, but that’s the essence of Coben’s work—those unexpected twists create an engaging plot. Milo’s character shift surprised even him.

Wrapping up: What about the ending? Would you explore these characters again?

Lower: I hope this family finds some peace; they’ve been through enough.

Worthington: A second season could be quiet but powerful. Sometimes, it’s the simplest gestures that hold the most meaning. The scene between father and son shows that beautifully.

I Find You is currently streaming on Netflix.