American Dream Reflections by Kevin Kwan
As part of a collaboration with the Milken Center for Advancing the American Dream, the Post is highlighting personal stories about what the American Dream means today. One of these contributors is Kevin Kwan, known for his popular novel, “Crazy Rich Asians.”
Kwan recalls how his father chose to move the family to the U.S. in 1985, despite having a comfortable life in Singapore. “I think he wanted more for us,” Kwan reflects. In Singapore, a strictly stratified society shaped his father’s upbringing within an upper-class family, bound by tradition and expectations. He aimed to provide his children with a fresh start—perhaps a clean slate—where they could reshape their identities and aspirations. This, Kwan believes, was a remarkable opportunity.
The family settled in Houston, Texas, where Kwan’s father encouraged them to cultivate independent thinking. “America will do that for you,” he often said, emphasizing the abundance of opportunities that often go unnoticed.
Kwan expresses deep appreciation for the chance to experience social mobility in the U.S.: “I don’t think there’s another country that offers it like America.” He notes the challenges still faced, yet he feels a sense of acceptance here that allows for personal ambitions without shame.
Looking back, Kwan realizes pursuing a creative career might have seemed impossible had he stayed in Singapore. The paths were defined; traditional roles dictated one’s career based on class. “In Singapore, if you came from a certain background, you were expected to be a doctor or lawyer, not a photographer or actor,” he explains.
Growing up in America, he thinks many take their freedoms for granted—freedoms that those from more restrictive countries yearn for. “I dreamt of freedom of speech,” says Kwan, conveying a desire for unfiltered self-expression.
The American Dream Video Project aims to shed light on real-life stories that navigate the journey toward opportunity, as part of the Milken Center’s celebration of America’s 250th anniversary. The MCAAD, located in Washington, DC, offers interactive exhibits that explore the quest for the American dream.
