Every woman knows that familiar dilemma: standing in front of a closet full of clothes, yet feeling like you have nothing to wear. It sounds trivial, but for at least one reader of the New York Times, it’s a genuine concern.
A reader named Miriam expressed her worries to fashion critic Vanessa Friedman, saying, “I have some flattering sheath dresses, but now when I wear them, they remind me of MAGA style.” Friedman seems to understand these concerns fully, highlighting that the MAGA aesthetic often includes certain familiar traits—short hairstyles, heavy makeup, and figure-hugging dresses.
She mentions individuals like Melania Trump and Ivanka Trump, noting that public figures often embody this style. Caroline Leavitt, the White House Press Secretary, also oscillates between wearing a fitted dress and a suit. This style, Friedman notes, accentuates traditional gender stereotypes by presenting an almost exaggerated version of femininity.
So, what does all this mean? Friedman believes that the prevalence of this MAGA-inspired look has conditioned the public’s perception of femininity. “When we see women with certain traits, it feels like our brains have been wired to react. But honestly, when I see a well-dressed woman, I don’t feel some hidden impulse from deep within,” she clarifies.
Friedman reassures readers that women can certainly look stunning in a sheath dress, but they need to be aware of the associated connotations. It’s best to steer clear of patriotic colors like red, white, and blue. Instead, she suggests opting for shades that bring to mind concepts like “goth” or “minimalist,” implying these colors can convey a sense of sophistication or rebellion.
In her closing thoughts, Friedman emphasizes the importance of individuality in fashion. The goal, she says, is to present oneself with unique style and confidence, even if it involves heeding a columnist’s advice.
Interestingly, just recently, the New York Times referred to cross necklaces as a trendy accessory. It makes one curious about what their next style piece might be—perhaps “How to pull on pants without turning it into a spectacle” or “Wearing red lipstick without signaling a political stance.”
