More than 4,500 people have reacted so far, with around 4,000 people commenting on a man’s social media post in which he declared he would not forgive his “cheating wife” who went on a “girls trip” over the weekend. He was married to another man.
However, hinting at personal turmoil, he labeled his post, “Am I wrong for not giving my cheating wife a second chance?”
The man who shared his story on a Reddit page known as “Am I Wrong?” said he is 39 years old and his wife is 33.
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According to HippoOK9111, the couple has been together for 14 years, married for 10 years, and has a 7-year-old daughter.
Recently, she stated, “I went on a girls’ trip. I wasn’t worried at all. I never had any mistrust.”
Sharing his personal story on social media, the husband (not pictured) said his wife had “never done anything to make me worry and had no intention of going abroad.” he said. (St. Petersburg)
The man said she had “never done anything to cause me concern and had no intention of going abroad.”
He added: “She was going to Butlins, 30 minutes away,” referring to the British seaside resort chain.
He said she “went with her sister and a few other girls.”
“she [had] I only went there for one night out of a three-night trip. ”
But that wasn’t the end.
He wrote, “She called me this morning and I wasn’t expecting anything other than her checking in. [had] I only went there for one night out of a three-night trip. ”
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However, when the man answered the phone, his wife said she was “crying and incoherent.”
“When I finally got her to calm down, she told me that she had slept with someone else the night before,” he said.
The man wrote that when he answered the phone, his wife (not pictured) was “crying and incoherent.” (St. Petersburg)
The Reddit poster apparently shared all the details that were passed on to him by his wife.
The couple apparently “flirted around a little bit and danced together. She thought that was her limit. But it seems like he was just seducing her and kissing her. It’s like they were flirting.” “That led me to ask her to walk me home.”I went to her hotel and that’s how they had sex. ”
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He went on to elaborate, adding that the man in question was “probably 10 years younger than her and she lied and told him she was getting a divorce. She doesn’t know what hit her.” . She just wanted to see if she still had it, but she got carried away. ”
“Am I wrong for not even thinking of forgiving her?”
Her husband said, “I want to break up with her. I’m begging her not to break up with me, recommending marriage counseling, never going out again, never drinking alcohol again, etc.”
He said, “I’ve always been a ‘one chance’ kind of guy. I’ve just told her to leave myself and I’ve been ignoring her…now her friends and sister have told me too.” I’m making a call.”
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He went on to say, “I just want everyone to leave me alone.”
When the husband told his mother about the drama, “She said, “You should think about your family.” My wife seemed to have sincere remorse and didn’t try to hide anything, but immediately came clean. I did,” he said. She was having an affair. ”
“If it just happened, there’s no need to make a decision now,” one person wrote about the couple’s drama. “You’re going to feel a range of emotions as each day and week goes by.” (St. Petersburg)
Her husband added: “I feel like I’m crazy. Am I wrong for not even thinking of forgiving her?”
In a lengthy update to the original post, the man wrote in part to others, “Speaking of my mother, she still thinks I should forgive her…she loves her. And my mother just wants everything to go well, ”said in part.
He also wrote, “My daughter has no idea what’s going on…I still don’t know what to do either. To be honest, I’m still upset.”
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Among the comments posted by others on the site were the following, representative of the feelings of many others: “Goodbye…If you leave it alone, the same thing will happen again and again.”
It was written by another person with a completely different perspective, which was also written by another person, and it said, “Marriage counseling is definitely the way to go. It’s possible to get through this.”
“I’ve always been a ‘one-chan’ guy,” the husband said of what happened between him and his wife. Thousands of commenters are sharing their opinions on this romantic drama. (St. Petersburg)
And this commenter took a more centrist view of the situation, saying, “Take a moment and seriously think about everything. If it just happened, make a decision now. You don’t have to. You’re going to feel different emotions every day and every week that passes.”
The same commenter added, “Take the time to strip away your disgust, anger, disappointment, and any other emotions and see what’s really left.”
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Kathy Nickerson, a licensed clinical psychologist who has presented marriage and relationship advice at more than 70 conferences, says on her website that “Most people who cheat… [on a partner] They are trying to cope with the pain they are experiencing. ”
She also wrote on her blog that someone who has been betrayed by a spouse or partner may be “shocked, devastated, betrayed, scared, blindsided and deeply hurt.”
The California-based psychologist also said that people “can get through this situation… This doesn’t mean your partner doesn’t love you. You’re not crazy. You. He’s just very, very hurt.”
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